Our expert says:
It really sounds as though she is far from being "over" the last guy, and as though she is playing with both of you, which is not at all a good basis for a good relationship. OK, it's not nice for you to have looked through her SMSs, bu these proved that she has been far more dishonest with you for a long time - I understand that you feel youshould apologise for having checked her phone - but what about her having continued this relationship with your ex while pretending otherwise ?
Leave her behind and move on - let her continue or finish her relationship with the other man. WEither way, she is NOT yet ready for an honest relationship with anyone else.
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