Our expert says:
Maybe leave well alone ? If he had changed his mind, and wanted to make contact with you, he has been free to do so. And if he is as stubborn as you remember, he's not likely to have changed his mind, or to do so in the future. There's not much to gain by aproaching him now, and maybe more of a possibility of encountering further hurt.
More important is the need for you personally to get over this, to be more free to find and enjoy other, less fraught relationships, rather than sitting wondering what might have been. What might have been is superceded by what was.
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