Our expert says:
Well Pieter you are struggling with a number of things. Firstly, in relation to the size of your penis: the average penis is 10-15cms, so if your measurements are accurate then you are above average. I can't help but wonder why you are so unhappy with it given that your wife has expressed her satisfaction... Secondly, the rapid ejaculation is something that can be addressed. The most long term solution would be to learn delay strategies (search in the history of this forum - I have given detailed advice about how to do this several times!). There is also the option of medication that can delay ejaculation. Finally, as for you thinking about sex all the time, I think this would need to be better understood as there may be a number of explanations for this including sexual disatisfaction (never feeling satiated sexually), mixing up feeling sexual desire with wanting love and affection (given that you have a one year old child, I'm assuming that your wife may be busy and tired a lot...?), sexual desire masking some other feeling, etc. I would recommend that if you can, go for a couple of sessions with a sex therapist to try to address some of the difficulties if this post doesn't assist.
Claire - SASHA
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