Our expert says:
As you well know, sex and love are significantly different things, and the one often confuses us about the other. As you were presumably willing but not forced at gunpoint into this sexual encounter with your ex,why do you feel entitled to feel used, and not user ? Were you expecting this to be the start of a full-on romentic revivial, such that you feel cheated because it hasn't proved to be that ? You say you still love him, so I'd guess you were expecting to discover that he still loved you, and feel very disappointed to find this may not be so ?
Leave him be. If he should offer a more romantic re-bound, think about that possibility seriously but not thoughlessly. If he doesn't, move on.
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