Our expert says:
OK. Not doomed, but a bit confused. And the best route would be to see a gay-friendly shrink ( by which I mean one who is not hostile and can be neutral as to what he/she thinks you SHOULD be, so as to be better able to help you explore and understand yourself better ) for a full assessment. You wouldn't be the first guy wih homosexual interests who chose not to reveal them and got married to a woman. But it is best to work with a therapist to clarify what would be best for you and your partner.
As you will know from your reading ( I don't recall the precise sexuality of Schrodinger's Cat !) most people are not exclusively straight or gay, and many are somewhere between the two extremes. It is admirable that you are aware of the implications for your potential partner, and want to think this through before making impulsove decisions
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