Our expert says:
Its impossible to tell, from a distance, whether this is just ordinary pre-wedding jitters or whether it reflects deeper concerns. Couples counselling would be a VERY good idea, well before any wedding.
Your personal systems were stable and satisfactory for 8 years. Even if marriage has always seemed the natural destination and a desirable move, it may change the stability, and maybe she feels there could be unknown dimensions she doesn't altogether understand.
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