Our expert says:
Relationships are hard work even when you are together and have loads of time to work on them. Distance or time constraints inevitably make them more difficult. Either end the relationship and move on, or both of you need to take it seriously and work on it together, face to face, maybe with the assistance of a counsellor, and not via chat software, SMS etc.
If she blows hot and cold like this, then probably she doesn' know what she wants and is just stringing you along.
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