Our expert says:
Talking of needing to fill a gap for a brother, etc., is an elaborate excuse. Many of us have never had a brother, and that doesn't need to lead to obsessions with someone else, especially not with someone who apparently doesn't want her around any more ?
Surely, both because of the degree of depression in her which you notice and describe, and because of the apparently unwholesome nature of this relationship with this guy, she should be persuaded to see a psychotherapist to sort out her apparently many issues ?
I wonder whether she clings to the remnants of a relationship with the guy who doesn't want her, as a sort of limitation on her ability to commit herself to anyone else ?
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