Our expert says:
So you know him to be a cheat, a liar, and a bad and unreliable partner to you. You say RECENTLY he has seemd a good father to the children - after all these years, why might this be ? That you allowed him back into your life ( and, from your comments, apparently back into your bed ) is hardly wise, and you need not apologise for responding normally to someone who until so recently has treated you and the child so badly. And there is absolutely no good reason for you to feel sorry for him, as his situation is exactly as he created it.
Why on earth would he suddenly recide, 9 YEARS LATER that he actually loves you and wants to get married ? Has someone else suddenly deserted him ? Dooes he want your financial support ?
YOu are absolutely right to be suspicious and cautious. Have you discussed this with family and friends ?
Overall, I see no reason at all for you to give him "another chance" - 9 years represented an awful lot of chances ! Move on, and protect yourself and your child
He made this bed for himself ( not yours ! ) and should lie on it alone
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