Our expert says:
I'm never quite sure about whether people are "technically" anything - somehow it implies the existence of a book of rules somewhere, and maybe a team of adjudicators, like on Idols. I don't quite understand - he is a "very good friend" of yours, but you didn't know he had a girlfriend ? That doesn't sound accurate. Now, instead of maybe feeling a bit fond of him, you say you're so in love with him ? Didn't that happen in rather a hurry ? He has a gf, and he is , honourably, wanting to stay with her rather than cheat on her. Why would you want to "pursue him" and try to get him to cheat on her ? Either you will fail, and embarrass and hurt yourself, him and her - or you will succeed, hurt her, and know you are with a cheater. Where's the advantage ?
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