Our expert says:
It's not the genuine, actual, children, his or yours, who are causing any problems here, of course - its the great big Child, your husband, who seems to reluctant to grow up and behave like an adult. Won't the children be harmed by having such a really bad example around ? What positive and good things will they be able to learn from the guy you are describing here ?
Of course you andd the children have a right to be happy, and this should not be sacrificed for his devotion to Partying.
Personal counselling, perhaps from a group like POWA which helps abused women, might help yopu to grow in self-respect and strength to make a safe move to care for yourself and the children.
Only if he would be very willing to join you in sincere couples counselling, would there be any realistic chance of things improving.
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