Our expert says:
mpho makes good sense. If he also found these calls unwelcome, he wouldn't hide them, and could stop them - by telling her to stop, changing his number, even getting a court order.
You're avoiding talking about how much this hurts you, for fear that he may get upset ? Don't your feelings count ? It very reasonably leads you to suspect he may be cheating on you in some way, and if your relationship with him is to grow in a wholesome way, you two do need to talk about this. It need not be a Confrontation, but it does need to be clear and unambiguous. Rather than making angry accusations, describe what you see and how it makes you feel, and ask him to help you understand what is going on
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