Our expert says:
I understand why you feel puzzled - but you have to ask him. Calmly ( increases the chances that you'll get a useful answer ). Dos the stokvel pay out as much for people who pay up later in the year as if they pay in january or February ?
Dont "confront" him - confropntation is FAR to fashionable and not usually useful - just talk to him abou it.
You can say something like " I thought we had discused and agreed on what to do about the stokvel money - now my sister mentioned you had asked her to pay it, and I don't quite understand what is going on - could you explain this to me ?
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal
advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.