Our expert says:
Firstly, you surely realize that workplace romances very rarely work out hapilly, especially when one of the couple is the other one's boss - when there is also an especially high risk of accusations of sexual harassment in due course.
Its obviously not up to his mother to decide who he marries, but if he has already made promses to this other wman AND has had a child with her ( which his mother could not have forced him to do ), then he has obligations to her. And if he is happy to ignore those, why wouldn't he be just as happy to ignore you when it came to suit him. Is he not motivated to express "love" for you because it suits him in this job, to maybe get a better position, maybe a permanent one ?
It really sounds as though you have highly unrealistic expectations. And how do you manage to do the management job you apparently have, when weeping all day in "love" for one of your workers ?
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