Our expert says:
A child CAN be a bond between two people, but not automatically or in every case. He absolutely should not be enabled to "take it out" on the child in any circumstances. Consult the maintenance folks at court and consider getting a court to order him to pay proper maintenance for his child. If he is so inconsistent, this can be damaging and troubling for the child, and there is no excuse for him behaving in this maner. The court could also be asked to recognize how cruelly he has treated the child, and could even decide that he has no further rights to contact her, depending on what you request and what it considers to be in the best interests of the child
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