Posted by: Mandy | 2009-09-11


I married my husband at the age of 18 because i fell pregnant.The problem is that even though we have a good marriage I have this secret crush......not even sure if crush is the correct word I want to use, on someone at work. There is clearly sexual tension between myself and this guy.......just today I walked into him and the look that he gave me was oh! so damn seductive. This guy really drives me crazy.......I don' t trust myself being alone in his I try to avid him as much as possible.Just for the record nothing happened between us yet..........I' m really trying hard to contain myself.......

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thsi is somethin that happens to all of us at some point in our relationships. you need to decide what is more important yourmarriage or the crush ...yes I know its a difficult choice......and where will this crush go if left to its own dynamics?? sorry cannot be more specific but you have given no indication which way you might be leaning

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Posted by: Mandy | 2009-09-11

Glad to know that i' m not the only one with these feelings......well this guy is not exactly good looking but from day one I' ve just been attracted to him.........sometimes he' d call me just to hear my voice and asks me to come to his office but I always make excuses.......i just feel very uncomfortable in his company.......there are days though if i have to admit i wish he' d just grab me and kiss me...........God i know this is wrong but can' t help how i feel......

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Posted by: Anon | 2009-09-11

I am basically in exactly the same position as you - guy at work so sexy I want to rip off his clothes in the lift, but I dont want to cheat on my husband. Thought it was only me with this problem. Pity polygamy for women is out of the question.

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