Our expert says:
Its a bit odd to "break up" with someone, and then live with them for 4 years. Anyhow, emotional abuse is not a good sign. Would he be prepared to see a relationship counsellor with you, to see if this can beavoided, and the relationship improved ? If not, its not wise to stay with even a potentially abusive man who won't take the responsibility to try to change things for the better. I don't think you need to feel guilty, but it seems odd that you're prepared to put up with someone who fights with you and hurts you at least emotionally, just because there's some fun in between ? Maybe some personal counselling would help you to clarify what you want and how to get it
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