Our expert says:
You'll find people react with annoyance when one posts messages entirely in CAPITALS --- online it's considered to be shouting, and it's hard to read.
Sounds like you have both erred, and both want to work things out. See a marriage counsellor together ( eg via FAMSA ) and work on solving the problems. Going away for a couple of weeks is evading the problem, rather than part of the solution
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