Our expert says:
Has he become softer over the years, or have your expectations changed ? Have you, perhaps, become more asertive ? Why, after all these years, such a sudden and firm decision to break up ? Why not try some marriage counselling, not as a way of forcing you to stay together, but as a way of understanding what has been happening, and making a wiser, informed, and more thoughtful decision ? Could your feelings for him change AGAIN ? Why not ? They seem to have fairly recently changed from what they were previously.
As Really points out, you are determined to leave a man who provides everything most women want in a man. WOuld you pefer him to be LESS understanding and kindly ?
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