Our expert says:
This is probably best done in continuing discussion with her ( i.e not seing it as a one-off Major Talk ), and in relation to the issues as she herself sees them.
Remember the difference between being aggressive and assertive - so long as she's happy, and prefers to broadly defer to others, that's probably not a problem. But she may need guidance as to how, tactically, to deal with others being mean, aggressive or unpleasant with her, how to deal with disappointments when others don't select her to play with.
It doesn't sound as though the teachers have ben handling the situation particularly well.
What do other, experiences moms among our readers, have to suggest ?
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