Our expert says:
Long-distance relationships between people who are geographically separated are always even more difficult that relationships where you live close to each other and can meet frequently. And there is more room for suspicion. But he sounds vastly over-controlling. Its not his right to tell you what to do, or to forbid you to visit family and friends - that is intolerable, and only likely to get worse. If he can't trust you without all these excessive precautions, then he isn't ready for an adult relationship.
And to say that HE doesn't go out, so you shouldn't, is absurd. He sounds ominously needy and high-maintenance and insecure, and highly unlikely to have a free and happy relationship with anyone until he sees a shrink and deals with his own large problems. YOu'd do best to find a safe and cautious way to end this relationship, and be cautious as such excessively jealous and insecure people can be troublesome or even violent when a relationship ends.
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