Our expert says:
I suspect it's a rather common attitude among men that they don't dream of being married, the way many women do. And especially if they can get to live and love with a woman they care about - WITHOUT marrying, they see no benefit in marriage as such.
And some don't necessarily want kids - especially beyond a certain age. You mention an age difference, but not his actual age. At some ages you value your sleep more than the pleasures of having kids.
So maybe there's a need for a lot more calm discussion. You may not be singing from the same page, maybe not even from the same hymn book.
When he says "I do", what exactly is he planning to DO ?
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