Our expert says:
Obviously he should have told you about this child, and waiting for a paternity test was no excuse for not telling you, as regardless of outcome it was still relevant to you both. He can't be so naive as to think that it's really none of your business and of no interest to you. And he really suggests that he doesn't care if you have a dozen other kids by different men and haven't told him about this ? Doesn't sound likely, does it ?
Of course you're not wrong in wanting to be informed about this. The child might at any time want more contact with him. He is presumably paying maintenance for the child's care, and that impacts on your family inances. And he has to be in regular contact with the mother, even if its only about the child, and that's hardly irrelevant to you.
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