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Posted by: betta | 2011/09/22

commitment

Ek is al 7jr in n verhouding met n man wat nie wil commit nie. Hy is 6 jaar jonger as ek. Hy bly tans by sy ma. Ek is geskei en bly met mly 9jarige dogtertjie alleen. Ons sien mekaar net 1 of 2 keer n maand omdat hy se die petrol is te duur. Ek wil graag trou want anders is ek besig om my tyd te mors. Gee asb raad hieroor. Hy is n baie outydse mens en verkies om by die huis te wees. Soms wonder ek of hy n mommies boy is. Help asb

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After 7 years of basically getting what he wants, why would he change ? He really isn't likely to suddenly decide to commit. He's probably satisfied with things as they are, and unlikely to want marriage now ( if he hasn't wanted it so far ), while you probably, and perhaps sensibly, are not.

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Posted by: Leila | 2011/09/22

I think this relationship has seen its Saturday, Sunday, Monday and Tuesday, now all that remains is WTF!!!!!

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Posted by: Maria | 2011/09/22

Ek sien geen teken in jou boodskap van enigiets positief wat jy uit hierdie verhouding kry nie. Na 7 jaar is die kanse nie goed dat hy skielik gaan verander nie en dit klink of julle op baie verskillende plekke is in julle lewens - emosioneel, en in terme van verantwoordelikhede.

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2011/09/22

After 7 years of basically getting what he wants, why would he change ? He really isn't likely to suddenly decide to commit. He's probably satisfied with things as they are, and unlikely to want marriage now ( if he hasn't wanted it so far ), while you probably, and perhaps sensibly, are not.

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