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Posted by: Flower1980 | 2010/03/16

coldsore

Why is it everytime I give my boyfriend a BJ I get a coldsore. And now he wants me to give him a BJ again but I am to shy to tell him why not, or how should I talk about the subject with him.

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I would suggest that you tell him that you have made this link and that you are not prepared to engage in any form of sexual contact without a sexual health check up and use of a condom in the future. Whilst this might seem a little harsh, you need to protect yourself, and you also need to protect him - if you have a cold sore - which is also part of the Herpes family of viruses, there is a chance you could give him genital Herpes! The spread of this virus is most likely during an outbreak (i.e. when sores are present, but it is worth using protection (condoms/dental dams/cling film) to be safe).

Claire - SASHA

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Posted by: Nice Guy | 2010/03/17

No No you have to give him a BJ, just use condom isn''t that common sense, tell him he is sick and he is making you sick and you have decided to use protection, then you will be fine

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Posted by: paul | 2010/03/16

Be honest with him. Tell him the truth.

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Posted by: Sexologist | 2010/03/16

I would suggest that you tell him that you have made this link and that you are not prepared to engage in any form of sexual contact without a sexual health check up and use of a condom in the future. Whilst this might seem a little harsh, you need to protect yourself, and you also need to protect him - if you have a cold sore - which is also part of the Herpes family of viruses, there is a chance you could give him genital Herpes! The spread of this virus is most likely during an outbreak (i.e. when sores are present, but it is worth using protection (condoms/dental dams/cling film) to be safe).

Claire - SASHA

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