Our expert says:
Thism must have been very disappointing for you. And his reaction is rather typical of someone who wants to ignore the sinificance of a problem they are involved in --- raher than facing the fact that he may be cold and sexually inhibited, he blames you for wanting too much. And sex onl when he wants it, is inconsiderate. But these problems could probably be solved within marriage counselling --- except that he refuses this, presumably because he fears what he might have to reveal about himself, and doesn't want to look like the one to blame.
You'd need legal advice, but one can, I think, seek a divorce on the grounds that a marriage has irretrivably broken down and is loveless --- especially if your spouse refuses counselling or other potentially helpful interventio.
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