Our expert says:
I think there's often a significant difference between faith and church-going. As Thalia says, your not giving him any reason ( and I agree with you it is absolutely none of his business ) probably enables him to believe that there is hope and purpose in his harrassing you, as he can read into your silence whatever he pleases. I quite like Thalia's suggestion to indicate to him that you react badly to the feeling of pressure, and want to feel free to come when you feel ready for it. Really, as usual, also makes excellent sense.
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