Our expert says:
That was an enormous omission, and obiously grossly unfair to you. And his in-laws behaved wrongly, too. And to claim a man was so desperate to have a second child that this somehow excuses infidelity, is a pile of hogwash. Enough to wash a whole load of hogs.
But draw the right conclusions --- it is not true that LOVe is not worth it, but that maybe loving a repeated lying cheater is not worth it. It is HIM who has done wrong, not you, nor love. Your depression can be helled, with CBT counselling and perhaps medication. DO see a shrink and get the help you deserve.
And the CHILD has caused you no pain at all --- the child's selfish and foolish father has done so, and has ben unfair to the child as well as to you. You don't have to love the child, only to not hate it. Leaving the country is an understandable impulse, but not a good idea --- your hurt will be the first thing you pack and the first thing you unpack, wherever you go, and you would be separaetd from all potntial support systems.
Mak no more excuses for his cheating, consult a lawyer and make sure a court orders him to pay full maintenance.
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