Our expert says:
This sounds like parts of an adjustment reaction to your separation, quite possibly exaggerated by your husband using the child to convey messages to you, which may disturb her far more than he intends or realizes. Communicate with him somehow that you don't want to discuss your decision to leave, but that anything he wants to say to you should be by e-mail, and NOT through the children, as it is clearly upsetting them and inappropriate.
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