Our expert says:
Somewhat over-controlling ? TOo usd to getting her own way, and assuming she is ALWAYS right, and her ideas must be dominant and immediately so ? And grabbing a steering wheel can be dangerous and is foolish at all times, as is insisting that a driver immediately look at whatever trivial thing has caught her attention. Are there other ways in which she shows such severe lack of simpey common-sense ?
Surely you have, gracefully and calmly, drawn her attention to this annoying habit ? What does she say about it ?
An alternative to "no need to shout" I find can be helpful, is " You know I can't hear or concentrate on what you're saying, when you shout"
Hestia is right about the value of calmly raising such things immediately, rather than swallowing it till it builds into a great globe of resentment.
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