Our expert says:
I'm hoping those are messages, rather than massages, in his phone ! Don't go ahead with another baby till these issues have been sorted out, and try to persuage him to join you in marriage counselling ( eg through FAMSA ) emphasizing how it could make the marriage much happier for him. ( and of course it would help with problems like the apparent lack of climax, which isn't you r"fault" but a shared problem. )
But you would need to be sure that the marriage is still viable. Uou say there is nothing he wouldn't do for you, but there was one very important thing he WOULD'NT do for you --- to remain faithful.
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