Our expert says:
Predictability can be a real passion-killer. Yet with her, is he also needing Viagra ? Ot is he exhausting himself with her and not you ? But don't lets confuse libido ( the desire to perform sexually ) with actually being able to perform.
For you to be very bothered indeed about his infidelity is entirely understandable. What concerned me from your description was the extent to which you seem to have been consumed by the effort of checking up, when you apparently already know what is happening, and the extent to which this checking was limiting your ability to enjoy your own life, rather than restricting his transgressions. Wouldn't it be better just to end the relationship with him, and to move on ?
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