Our expert says:
Indeed, you are a loser and idiot for having cheated on a good person. And as you refer to your friends knowing, she is bound to find out before long - and better she hear it from you, and have some chance of discussing it with you, than hearing from someone else. Cat Lady makes an excellent point - presumably you blabbered about it to your friend ? Because unless the act of cheating took place in public, how would they have known about it ?
Maybe a counsellor could help you plan how to do this as kindly as possible, and with minimal risk, but choices and actions have consequences.
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