Our expert says:
"WHY" is a very natural and yet remarkably unhelpful question, to which one rarely gets any useful answer, and which he could probably not answer if he really tried to do so. Focus on supporting your mother. And don't expect support from your husband - because even if he loves you, men feel especially awkward in dealing with emotional and socially embarrassing issues
Maybe your mom would benefit from some personal counselling to help her work out what's best for her ?
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