Our expert says:
HE broke up with YOU, after having cheated on you with his ex, who he has now quarrelled with about him not wanting you to find out about them ( how "broken up" is that ? ) But though you have "broken up" you still live together and sleep together every night ?
He pretends to other people that you have NOT broken up ( and though he claims its none of the business of others, he carefully fakes it because he bothers so much what they think ) ; and he gets jealous and tries to limit your freedom to chat to other guys ? And now you plan to spend a weekend away with some other guy, between the nightly cuddling with your "ex" ?
This seems a totally unnecessarily confused and confusing and complex situation. As the old French saying goes, A Door should be either open or shut" - either talk this through with him and agree to carry on together with the aid of a couples counsellor to try to sort out all the layers of pretence ; or agree to end it and actually end it. This is a mutual case of insisting on having your cake and eating it, too.
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