Our expert says:
What a complex situation you have created for yourself. I'm sure other readers can have useful comments here. It sounds like a relationship with uusually many factors weighing against its becoming a lasting and happy one. It does indeed sound as though you are very useful to him, though. Leaving him makes sense, and its not a highly complex skill. Staying leaved, in the sense of maintaining that position and moving on seems to be the skill that bafles some of us. See a counsellor if necessary, but move on
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