Our expert says:
As I often say, sometimes people, especially young women, are actually in love with the idea of being in love, and direct this towards someone who actually doesn't love them, and who sometimes doesn't even deserve to be loved. And they can be very stubborn about revising their assumptions about this "love".
If he ever actually loved you, he still would, and you wouldn't be sitting around waiting for him to "love you again".
The "friends with benefits" fashion is actually only abouty providing guys with free sex who want nothing more, from women who assume they'll get more if they give more.
He's getting what he wants from you QWHEN he wants it, and isnt interested in you at other times.
You didn't over-react, you have been under-reacting. You don't describe the faintest way in which he signals that he wants you at all, except for the occasional "benefits". Don'\t you deserve a whole lot more than that ? Its highly unlikely you'll get more from him.
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