Our expert says:
Don't trap yourself in this one. It is fair, if your partner is behaving in a way that bothers you, to ask them to behave more pleasingly. But to demand that they must do it spontaneously, or that they must want to do it, first, is to ask for something real people don't do. It's like him asking you to not want him to ignore them. Wanting can be beyond our control,behaviour is within our control. And after he behaves in the right way for some time, he is more likely to come to want it this way, anyway.
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