Our expert says:
Amazing how many relationships start with a woman acepting an imperfect man, but assuming she will be able to transform him satisfactorily. Some people are unduly self-protective and insist on not being "judged" though it may be important for them to realize that while i ndeed they do have the right to be as slovenly as they wish, you are doing them a favour in pleasantly indicating what many other people will think of them - otherwise they mayh be puzzled by lacking friends, or not getting jobs or promotions. In your own home, you can dress and look as you please - but if you have to work and relate with others, you can't aford to entirely disregard what they may think about how you choose to look.
If he really wants to dress and appear in a way you find unpleasant and embarrasing, and is uninterested in how you feel about this, there may not be much point in continuing the relationship.
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