Our expert says:
Firstly, try to avoid giving yourself negative instructions and predictions, like " I can't get..." You haven't done so SO FAR. YOu could.
And face the FACTS. He was cheating on his fiancee ; he lied to you and to her. IS that really "everything you ever wanted in a guy " ?
And he had gotten his fiancee pregnant ( knowing especially what this would mean to a muslim ) and THEN decided he didn't much care for her ?
Then you felt sorry for him ( though he had been busy hurting OTHER people ) and gave him a chance to get you pregnant, too. And he didn't worry about the possible consequences for you.
What on EARTH do you find so irresistable about this rat ?
Of he needs to talk to someone, tell him to see a counsellor, who won't let him sleep with him or her. If he loved you there is no way he would have taken advantage of you so often. Are you really desperately keen to help him to get you into more trouble and misery ?
You are workin hard to ignore all the ugly truths about him, and you are in love not with this unpleasant guy,, you are in love with your fantasies of who you dream he might be and which he will never be.
You say you're not proud of what you did, but you keep on doing it. You CAN stop those feelings. You can stop being in love with a rosy fantasy, and start smelling the stinkblaar.
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