Our expert says:
It can very easily be related to fantasy-the excitement and thrill of something new and naughty especially with someone whom you can identify with. This fantasy has had 11years to fester in your imagination and it is possible you have gotten so caught up with it or have invested alot of passion in it that your'e unable to give much passion to your existing, real relationship. Be careful. Acting out on this may not end in 'happy ever after'. i would advise you to focus on your marriage and your husband, put your passion and energy into making that work and if you still find your mind lurking, than try and fix whats wrong before resorting to doing anything you might regret.
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