Our expert says:
If the child i old enough tom use a cellphone he could chat to the child that way, but to arrange visits, etc., should speak to the mother who needs to know where hernchild is.
There's no good reason for him to buy anything like clothes for his ex herself, except perhaps if she is now so poor she can't dress herself properly.
Why does he still have a key for your house so he can let other girls into it ? You could take that key back, or have the locks changed.
Sorry to hear you've had disappointing experiences with a counsellor previously. Maybe you need to persist to find the right counsellor for you ?
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