Our expert says:
Some people are often suspiciously eager to label others as abnormal. But it sounds odd to go ( if I understand you correctly ) away for 3 separate 1 week holidays, apparently at the same place ( you must have a marvellous salary and leave allowance ). Anyhow, They are right that very few women indeed would agree to leave their 11 month-old baby, even with loving and caring family, to go away for even 1 week of holiday and leave the child behind. You don't mention a father, so presumably you're a single mother, too.
Most moms would not want to leave their child behind.
Its especially revealing when you write "I'm not going to stop living my life because I have a baby". This is odd and worrying. If you want to live a carefree and irresponsible life as a single woman, you are free to do so - and dont have a baby. Once you have a child, you have inescapable duties of care and love towards that child. "My life" is now a new way of life INCLUDING the child. The way you speak of it suggests there's your real life which you live alone, with pals, partying and on holiday, and some other life when you are with the child. That's not how it works. Most moms would be happy to and indeed prefer to, take the child with them on holiday. Yes, they couldn't then drink and party all night - but when you start having children, its time to be much les childish oneself, and that includes less devotion to partying and clubbing and drinking, and more time learning to be a real adult.
Maybe these other people are doing you a favour to bring to your attention something it seems you really wan to ignore, that you are choosing to behave selfishly and in an immature fashion, rather than face the realities of being a responsible mother.
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