Our expert says:
i would love to assist you but i am not a practicing doctor / gynae. if you wish to have sex on the night, you might want to rather focus on outer-sex / mutual masturbation. this may be even a better idea than resorting to penetrative sex on the first night. by focusing on outer-sex, both of you can communicate what you find arousing, stimulating and fun. in this way you start a sexual relationship on the right footing, namely that communication and finding out the key factors for stimulating your partner is key.
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