Our expert says:
Ouch. All those CAPITALS ! That counts as SHOUTING !
With 2 babies to look after, shouldn't you, perhaps, be more cautious about going out partying with people you don't really know well ? Wouldn't it be better for you to be aimed at improving your education, getting a good job, and being able to get your own place and look after your children ? There are other ways to relax, without leaving your mom to care for the children for longer than she expected to do.
Maybe you are indeed caring for yourself and your kids properly, but your mom is understandably concerned about you and the risks of starting close relationships with men you don't really know well yet.
I'm sure it seems awfully unfair to you, but having had 2 kids out of marriage and still being dependent on her and her home, maybe she hasn't had much experience of being convinced of how responsible, adult and competent you can be ?
The problem may be not that you disrespect and use your mom and sister, but that the way you do things makes them feel that way. Prove that this is not so, and discuss with them your concern about being so responsible towards your kids, but needing to plan some relaxation time for yourself, as well. Maybe make a few more just-friends, men and women, rather than climbing into a serious BOyfriend situation just yet ?
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