Our expert says:
Fortunately, love isn't competitive, and folks can love several people really deeply - it's nmot a question of them , loving their bio-mom so much that there must be less love available for you. I love several flavours of ice cream, and my relationship with Chocolate doesn't make me love lemon sorbet any the less.
While the delay of "solidify our relationship first" makes some sense - adding the length of your relationship, rather than only your marriage, that's three years - how long does it take to solidify ? When you mention "the next year", does this imply you have devided, together, to aim to start a pregnancy next year ? If so, that's not so far away, especially if you plan towards it, together, maybe gradually assembling some of the clothes, nappies,whatever paraphenalia the baby will need, it might make the planning feel more real ?
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