Our expert says:
As often in such complex situations, I wonder whether it wouldn't be wise to see a couples counsellor together, and see what's the wisest decision you can reach ?
And the puzzle isn't "men" because you're not trying to form a relationship with the entire species. Its about YOU ( not "women" ) and a relationship with THIS man, under these circumstances ; with your previous bad experiences ( and maybe some of his ) and your concern about your children, and so on. That's very specific, and where personal counselling is most helpful
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