Our expert says:
Question's response makes a lot of sense. Crying, while understandable, isn't, as you have surely discovered, useful. There's no simple way to regain his trust. Re-open communication, apologise, and see if he might even be interested in some sessions of couples counselling to see if this can be sorted out.
Unfortunately, we have to face the reality that some decisions on our part ( including the decision to get drunk enough to make lousy further decisions ) are deal-breakers and can have long-term consequences. If this relationshipm is over, that's sad, but if you learn this, that in itself will be valuable to you through life
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