Our expert says:
Whether or not he's living a double life, it sounds as though he's not being frank with you about his debts and obligations, and as though he's not keeping up with his obligations to share expenses with you. Then to have a gf so ready to fetch him, and the discovery that he has a child around the same age as your son with another woman. confirms there has been a double life, and that he has been deliberately misleading you.
Whether he wants to do so or not, he has a legal obligation to support his son with you, and you should go to your local Maintenance Court and get a court order requiring him to pay - if he doesn't do so, he'd be in contempt of court and could be in serious trouble. This would be good for your child, and might also help to teach him to stop fathering kids he can't be bothered to properly care for.
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