Our expert says:
Sorry, folks, but as I have to rush to Durban for an emergency, this forum was supposed to have been closed from Noon Monday, and has only been left open by mistake. So it will be extremely difficult for me to respond to all questions before Friday.
If you love each other, see a couples counsellor together and see what can be sorted out. OK, so his mom did awful things to him years ago, and you accidentally reminded him of that --- but he must realize it was not you who did awful things to him. And ating like this towards you won't help him at all. He may need to see his own personal counsellor to deal with those things and the effects of them which still continue.
But I tend to agree with the other readers that it soudns as thoug he is being unloving and using this incident as an excuse to break up with you, probably for entirely other reasons, which may have nothing directly to do with you.
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